Aunty's Response

This is the bravest question you could ask. Most people sleepwalk through their family karma, but you?You just woke up. 

What you are describing isn't a lack of willpower. It is agenerational echo. We inherit our grandmother’s eyes and our father’s laugh, but we also inherit their survival mechanisms and their fears.

That "struggle" you feel? That was their safety. Maybe your mother had to hoard money (or spend it fast) to survive. Maybe your father had to be emotionally distant to protect his heart. But what kept them safe is keeping you stuck.

 It is time for the Ancestral Reset. 

We don't judge our lineage—we thank them for surviving, and then we release them from the job of managing our future. To break the cycle, you must do the opposite of the pattern. If they moved in chaos, you must move in peace. If they moved in scarcity, you must move in gratitude. You are the circuit breaker, my love.